Sacred Romance?

an article on brides of Christ I was entirely impressed. I am sick of the superficial 'Jesus is my boyfriend' business. I have never really 'gotten' the Jesus as a lover aspect. I am currently reading The Sacred Romance of which I think treats it fairly well, however too many people take things far too literally. Knowing God is important, moving towards this is right. The Bible is not a love letter. maybe it's the difference between sacred romance and sacred infatuation...